If you don’t mind me asking?
These six words preceded a question I never mind hearing: “what happened to your hand?” Asked without a pause between the first question and the second, I answered without a moments hesitation, following the answer with, “I don’t mind at all.” I talk about this type of scenario the book, Surviving to Thriving: Finding Hope and Meaning Amidst Affliction. Anyone who is noticeably different; physical deformity, in a wheel chair, walking with a severe limp, etc. gets noticed. Often that person gets…